Sober Podcast 219 - Dating

Rehc asked for a personalized audio about dating as a sober person, especially when you meet someone magical and think "holy, this is the one!"

She specifically wants me to say these words in her audio: "Googling how to moderate, that's Wolfie. Wanting to drink to be normal for your family, that's Wolfie. Choosing a boy over sobriety - that's Wolfie!"

I have a mix of softy-softy and kick-ass in this audio, and am a bit more kick-ass-y than usual. At least it sounds like that to me when i listen back.

Question: In this situation, do you think she needs to hear something softy or kick-ass-y?